Here’s information you will not normally get, not from the woman or women in your life anyway. But here are the sex moves she craves, compiled from a survey of more than 1,000 women. So read on to know how you can make her crazy for more and more – only from you.
10. Be Nice To Breasts
You have ogled at her breasts, wondered how they look, fantasized about how they would feel like, the colour of the nipple, the softness of the skin. Put all those thoughts to action. Stimulate her breasts by stroking them softly, flicking your tongue on the nipples till they become hard and feeling the velvety skin. But do not, we repeat, do not crush the sensitive tissue in your hands. Bite her there – by all means, but (except in exceptional cases), do not hurt this area or you will end up damaging that sublime thing you have fantasized about so long.
9. The G-Spot
It should be called the S spot, for special and you need to stimulate it to give her the sex of a lifetime, every time. The G spot is located a little inside the front wall of her vagina. To hit it with your penis, go doggy style and ask her to rest herself on the elbows with hips turned towards you. Go slow at first and then increase the pace. But pay attention to rhythm.
8. The Quickie
She turns up from work and you grab her. Sounds great, right? But here’s something they didn’t tell you. It can backfire if your moves do not communicate how special she is. So do a quickie, by all means. But intersperse the passion with gentle moments. Don’t undress her completely, just lift up her skirt or pull down her pants and tell her how attractive she is. The more aroused you are, the faster she’ll get into it.
7. Stroke Her Hair
The scalp feels especially sensitive when aroused. Besides, tousling the hair gently is both sensual and loving. It is the perfect combination to get her into the mood. But do not do it when you’re having sex doggy style cause you will end up making her feel like a hooker.
6. Talk to Her
Women tend to visualize words and it will be erotic to tell her how attracted you are to her and how beautiful she is. Tell her how much she excites you but do not use the corny lines you hear on porn websites. She needs to know what she means to you and she wants to hear earnestness in your voice.
Moves For Masterful Sex
5. Nibble On Her Neck
The skin that stretches from underneath her ear to her collarbone is delicate, which makes it an erogenous zone. Use your tongue to lick her neck and then blow along its length. Follow it up with gentle nibbling.
4. Bring Her To Climax With Oral
A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and enjoy being spoiled. (Sound familiar?) But different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable to her on different days. To figure out what’s going to work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to the most enthusiastically. When you sense that she’s about to orgasm—her body will tense up and she’ll start breathing more quickly—go back to the move that elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it until she climaxes.
3. Touch Her Hot Spot Mid-action
Most women can’t orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation, which is probably why so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from behind are two great positions for access), you should rub her hot spot. Your touches should be slow and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic mound—her moans will tell you when you have it right.
2. Kiss Her During Sex
If you’re like most guys, once intercourse starts, you probably stop kissing her. That’s a bad move, since kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her, which is crucial to female pleasure. Pick a position that allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or have her sit on your lap, then mix up your smooches so they mirror the mood of the sex you’re having. If you’re going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a deep, tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When things are slow and romantic, go with a more sensual kiss.
1. Be More Aggressive
The number one thing women want is for you to be more aggressive in bed. That means handling her body with strength and confidence, which can be insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t require a lot of work or advanced skills on your part. In fact, doing just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal level. A few to try: In missionary, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress. When she’s on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. And when you want to change positions, don’t do it slowly or politely—grab her and put her where you want her.